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Don’t get me wrong, this question has haunted many a men and women for years altogether. Somehow, I see that becoming a more pronounced issue these days. And that got me thinking… Why now?! The question certainly isn’t new…. Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage.
They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect.By definition, who you love will not object to doing what u love in general. In principle they would be supportive since it makes you happy. Of course, I realize there are boundary conditions where what and who you love can never reconcile. Those aside, it just becomes a question of choice.
Can you put in that effort to manage who you love with what you love…. In case things go south on either front….
Essentially…. Does one matter more to you than the other…. And how….
You’re sending money every week to someone who brings nothing to your table.
You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor.
If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you —
They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain.
Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure?
That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left.
They insult you. Cheat. Use you.
And you say “nobody’s perfect.”
Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial.
You’re now pretending to be what they like —
New voice, new habits, fake vibes.
What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not?
They say “If you love me, no condom…”
Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage.
Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk.
S@x is not trust.
Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall.
You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing.
They’re doing the bare minimum.
That’s not love — that’s performance.
You’ve been together 5 years.
So what? If it’s been toxic for 4 out of 5, you’re not in love — you’re in debt.
You can’t save someone who enjoys being broken.
Love doesn’t fix laziness.
Love doesn’t fix irresponsibility.
Love doesn’t fix bad character.
Only discipline, therapy, and accountability can.
Love is beautiful. But don’t lose yourself trying to keep someone else
If someone loves you, as you love them, wouldn’t they want you to succeed in whatever you’re doing? Wouldn’t you want, insert person here, to do their own thing?
I think a big problem in society and relationships is that people have a mindset of, you must do this and this to be successful. Happiness is just as important, and that person you love should want you to be the best you, you can be.
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