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There are so many factors that can get in the way of a good marriage, but often, they are the small, unnoticed things that make their way in. In order to make sure our marriages survive and thrive.There are also many things that can pull a marriage apart these days. Some come from the outside, yet so many of the variables come from within.
When we start asking our spouses “Why can’t you be more like so-and-so?” or “Why can’t we be more like that couple?” we are setting ourselves up for failure. Many of us have seen that sweet couple we may have envied go through a really nasty divorce later.
Careless words to your spouse, or about your spouse to others, can be devastating. And careless attitudes toward relationships with others outside your marriage can lead to all kinds of pain and suffering.
Deceiving the other or is manipulating circumstances for personal gain or to get the upper hand in the relationship, the marriage is in trouble. Craftiness can be the manipulation of things big or small.
When we are harsh, abrupt, or rude to our spouses, it can really leave them feeling devalued. And when your spouse sees you being courteous to everyone around you except for him or her, it conveys that you care about your relationship with nearly everyone else more.
A controlling person is often not only disturbing but also selfish. And when one spouse tries to control the other, the life in the relationship can start to fade away. Trust and freedom in marriage are absolutely vital.
- Laziness kills marriage.
- Suspicion kills marriage.
- Lack of Trust kills marriage.
- Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage.
- Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage.
- Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage.
- Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage.
- Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage.
- Poor Communication kills marriage.
- Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect.
- Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage.
- Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage.
- Nagging kills marriage.
- Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage.
- Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage.
- Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage.
- Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage.
- Exposing Your Spouse’s Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage.
- Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life.
- Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage.
- Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage.
- Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage.
- Male Chauvinism kills marriage.
- Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage.
- Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
- Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage.
- Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage.
- Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage.
Marriage killers can be very subtle and seem innocuous, so learn what they are and how to avoid them early and work on it.
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