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For a marriage to be successful, you need to respect your wife even though it looks as if she doesn’t deserve it. When you treat your woman with respect, you foster intimacy between the two of you. There would be fewer conflicts, and it would be easy to resolve them when they arise.
If you want a happy and blissful marriage, one of the habits you need to imbibe is respecting your wife. This respect should not only happen in private but in public. If you tell your wife that you respect and love her, it is crucial to display this in public.
Without making too many assumptions or buying into too many stereotypes, it is still safe to say that there are many wives out there who don’t feel as loved as they desire and deserve. Perhaps they are actually lacking in love, but it is at least as likely that their spouses simply do a poor job of expressing love. If you want to make your wife feel loved, employ actions and attitudes that prove you know her, cherish her, prioritize her, and want to do whatever it takes to make her feel beautiful, valued, and heard.
When you finally propose to her. She accepts, and for a moment, everything feels right. But after a few days, months, or even years, you begin to feel that marrying her was the worst decision of your life. You start blaming her if it was a love marriage, or you blame your parents if it was arranged. Your frustrations turn into resentment. You speak harshly to her, you criticize her, and in some cases, you even abuse her—not because she changed, but because your expectations were never nurtured with understanding.
Yet, dear brother, have you ever paused to remember what made you want to marry her in the first place? What was it that drew you to her? What made you feel she was the one ?
Let me remind you—it wasn’t just her face or the way she looked on your wedding day. It was her aura, her essence, her energy. It was her smell, her personality, her passion, her dreams, her hopes, her intelligence, her laughter, her warmth, and the unique environment she created around her. These things made her special. They made her alive.
But marriage is not just about winning a woman’s heart—it’s about nurturing it. And somewhere along the way, you forgot to nurture what once attracted you. Slowly, all the things you loved about her started disappearing, not because she wanted them to fade, but because she no longer had the space to keep them alive. She sacrificed them, sometimes without even realizing it, to fit into the mold of what you or society expected from her.
You promised to cherish her, but now, when it’s time to nurture her, you avoid it. You take for granted the woman who once lit up your world. You assume she will stay the same, even though you have done nothing to protect her essence.Sadly, I sometimes forget to care for my spouse. Not materially, but emotionally. I stay too busy helping others, but fail the one who needs me the most. Since we have been married for decades, I can take her for granted, wrongly assuming she is alright and not needy. And being married to a “peacekeeper” she is not one to complain, only to carry on as a good and supportive wife. I am learning that to care for my spouse is to enter into an exclusive level of intimacy, only for her.
A woman is like a garden—she flourishes when she is loved, nurtured, and given space to grow. But if you do not water her dreams, if you do not care for her emotional needs, if you stifle her voice, she becomes nothing more than a body—a mechanical existence, a robot programmed to please, rather than a soul meant to be free.
When you met her, she was a woman full of life, joy, and excitement. She had a world of her own, a universe filled with dreams, ambitions, and emotions. But after marriage, if she becomes merely a shadow of who she was, you must ask yourself—did she change, or did you fail to protect the things that made her shine?
A woman can only remain a woman when she is free—free to express herself, free to love and be loved, free to exist as she truly is. The moment you cage her, silence her, or diminish her, she loses the magic that once captivated you.
So, dear man, before you blame her, look within. Ask yourself: Did you nurture what you once admired? Did you support the very things that made her extraordinary? Or did you let them wither away under the weight of your expectations?
If you want a woman who remains vibrant, happy, and fulfilled in marriage, don’t just expect her to stay the same—create an environment where she can continue to blossom. If you do, you will not only have a wife, but you will have a partner, a best friend, and a love that lasts beyond the first spark of attraction.
Because a woman isn’t meant to be owned—she is meant to be cherished.
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