What women want in relationship/marriage

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There are billions of women in the world. They are not all identical to each other. So they cannot all want exactly the same things.

There may be some characteristics that are common. There can be a different weighting on different factors.

Yet because there is such a variety the key is to find one that is compatible with YOU so that you can share your lives effectively and with minimal conflict.
Women are not an undifferentiated lump of advanced biomimetic nanobots pretending to be human, but all equipped with the same programming from the hive mother. Women are people. People have wildly, wildly different things they want and need.
Women are the physically weaker séx, but that is no reason to underestimate them.

I hope that the men reading this will take it in the spirit it was intended and not take offence.

It isn’t all that hard to attract men at any age, either for sex (they’d next to never turn down sex on offer, even if the woman doesn’t look like Gisele) or for a relationship.

Emotional security. Some kind of assurance that this person will be there to listen , when things will be harder.
A sense of belongingness. That I’m also a part of relationship. It isn’t always about him.
Communication. When you are not afraid to tell him anything and when they aren’t afraid to tell their. It’s some kind of magic no?
Time. If a man can not take out 10 mins of time in a day to text you in a day. He isn’t worth dating.
Vibe. How comfortable I am with person standing next to me? Is he trying to suppress me by any means? I ask all this.
His positivity. What kind of energy the person reflects matters. He shouldn’t be all negative about life in general.
Respect. He should respect the things I do. He shouldn’t demean me because I’m a girl. He shouldn’t impose his thoughts.
Commitment. If I give time, I would have my expectations involved. I don’t prefer things casual. Just not my thing.
Loyalty. It’s the backbone of any relationship. Even If your men gets attracted by beauties around and still choose the life long Commitment over that. He is the one.
Smile. Happy days should be more. A relationship should elate you not make feel miserable.

As long as a woman is willing to give over her body and/or provide all sorts of unpaid labour, like cooking, cleaning, and more, she’ll have several men to choose from at any given time. Will they all be George Cloonys? Of course not. But, let’s not act like older women are starved of possibilities.
Countless men had to learn the hard way that women can be very dangerous.
Women have always been attracted to strong leaders for men, and they feel no remorse for a fragile man that can’t handle his problems.
No matter what anyone tells you, she may pretend to feel for you, but deep down, your weakness disgusts her.
Men date down. Women date up.
Women look for a man that is better than them.
They want a man that earns more money and has better leadership abilities than her.
Most men don’t care about any of that in a woman. Men will happily date a broke girl, but this does not mean women are gold diggers. She merely wants to know if you’re suited for that natural craving for safety and security, and rightfully so.
Women need a good leader not only for themselves but also for their future children.
Biologically, it would make no sense for a woman to date down. It would be self-destructive to her and her bloodline.
Don’t complain about it; there are no excuses. If you are a man full of testosterone and ambition, there is no reason for you to be outperformed by your girl.
She will test you endlessly.
Most guys think women are unpredictable because they change their moods all the time.
The reality is that women consciously or subconsciously test men while dating to make sure that they are worth committing to.
For ages, women have been testing men to determine the best partner, and this evolutionary trait continues today.
These tests come in different forms, such as her getting emotional and starting a fight with you.
If you get emotional and start arguing with her, you have failed the test. But if you are able to remain stoic and unfazed, you pass the test.
Most guys fail these types of tests all the time because they don’t understand what’s going on.
They think these tests are disrespectful and take it as an insult, but that is the last thing you should do.
Women don’t test guys out of bad intentions.
Most of the time, they don’t even know they are testing you themselves.
It’s like their biological makeup forces them to poke and test a man to find out if he is the capable man she needs.
To know that your actions speak louder than your words.
She needs security.
The world has changed, and women are more financially steady than ever before, but that has not changed our biological makeup.
Every single woman still seeks security in a man, from physical security to emotional security and yes, even financial security.
Making a woman feel secure is the key to her heart.
When she is emotional, you must remain silent.
You have to be the rock that her emotional waves can crash into, and even if a woman earns more money than you, she is not designed to provide for a man.

This question is unanswerable. Each woman looks for different things in a man (and some women don’t look for men at all, of course). Each woman has different expectations for their relationships.

Women are people. Women are varied. There is no single blanket answer we can provide, because it does not exist.

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