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You have to decide that you want Peace in yourself and in your home as a woman. Also decide that you want peace for all in your family. Start thinking in terms of solution, rather than focusing on the conflicts that may be happening at your home.
Be sensitive and empathetic towards others in your family, even if they are not willing to do the same for you. Take this initiative and slowly you will see that others will get influenced by your attitude and actions. Be the one to others that you want others to be for you. Peace can only come, if you are peaceful inside.
You can be peaceful even in a turbulent places. Try to find a place, inside or outside of your house, preferable in nature, and meditate. Let go of everything. Accept everything that is happening and that is causing you difficulties. Accept and then change the situation. Without acceptance of the present situation and problem, one cannot find any productive solution. Bring peace in yourself, by not reacting to the people or situation and being tolerant and patient.
Accept people as they are and allow them space too to be who they want to be in any given situation. Practice being peaceful, even for a little while, everyday and this quality of peace will slowly become dominant in you. Engage yourself in some spiritual or relaxing practices such meditation, yoga, Chiquong, etc.
Find a like-minded community to practice things together and to discuss your personal matters in a safe environment and to seek other people´s perspectives on your issues, this will broaden your mind and you will start seeing the solutions. These are some suggestion. But I recommend you to also seek professional help such some kind of therapy, coaching, consultation, healing, etc. For every problem there is a solution, whether it is an internal problem or an external problem.
- When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
- When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
- When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband’s finances
- When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband’s meeting
- When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband’s best friend
- When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband’s sad mood
- When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
- When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband’s cultural meetings with him
- When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
- When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
- When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
- When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
- When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
- When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
- When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
- When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
- When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
- When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God’s help to become any of the above, you can’t do it on your own.
Lots of times, we associate peace with the absence of war. As something monumental that has a meaning on a much higher level than our everyday lives.
But peace begins in you. In your heart, soul and mind.
Peace begins when you begin to accept yourself, just the way you are, flaws and all. When you can let go of society’s expectations and false standards and start to live the way you see it fit.
Peace begins when you are able to see things from more than one perspective. When you begin to try understand others and be conscious of the results of your own actions on other people.
Peace begins when you are able to let go vendettas and plans for revenge that are eating you from the inside. When you can forgive those who deserve your forgivness.
Peace begins with you. It’s the smile on your face when you wake up and get ready to tackle another day full of challanges.
The moment you realize that life is not about winning and being the most successful person ever, you are already on the road to a better life.
Essentially, a peaceful and happy life is simply a state of mind. It’s the way you look at things and handle them.
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