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If so, you’re probably feeling not only frustrated, but also hurt and confused. If you think your girlfriend is using WhatsApp to chat or text with the person she’s cheating with, there are some ways you can confirm or minimize your fears.
It’s normal and healthy for people to have close friendships outside of their partnerships. If your girlfriend is communicating with someone you don’t know and she says that the person is just a friend, she could be telling the truth.
It’s understandable to have moments of doubt in any relationship. If you’re wondering if your partner may be cheating on you, it may be a good idea to pay attention and be aware of any changes in their behavior that may cause concern.
While infidelity may happen in a relationship, there is often an explanation for this type of behavior, so it may be best that you approach the conversation with an open mind. Confronting your partner may be challenging, but before accusing your partner of something that may not be true, it’s best to look for the signs if your partner is cheating or not. It can be helpful to read about how to find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you before taking action.
Cheating is a sign of general dissatisfaction in the relationship. However, it can also be a person’s pattern. When it comes to women, we can list a few causes why a woman /lady cheats:
Sexual dissatisfaction
Emotional starvation
Midlife crisis
Insecure attachment style
Anger
Loneliness
There can be several reasons why women/ladies cheat, which have been discussed above. But there are certain mechanisms in a person that draw them towards infidelity. L
Women/ladies with poor communication skills finally end up cheating because they are not able to communicate their needs to their husbands, and thus, misunderstandings tend to grow with time.
Women/ladies with control issues can also give in to cheating as they have the tendency to find a new spark every now and then
Women/ladies with narcissistic tendencies could be prone to cheating as they are not thinking about their partners and only about themselves and their fulfillment.
She says she needs to be in an “open relationship” with you for whatever reason. She says it’s “for you” but in reality she’s met someone else. (My ex did this).
She starts going out a lot with friends and family, if her family lives nearby. She’ll spend hours with them and always get home late!!
She’ll start spending a lot of time and $$ on her appearance. New bags, new shoes, new jackets, new make-up. And she listens to new music channels she never use to listen to in her car. She’ll spend an hour or two in the bathroom before going out.
Sign: When she’s out, her phone will always be off or in airplane mode. She gets disappeared for hours. She’ll tell you she’s with a friend(s) or family or some BS excuse.
If you know the person she’s possibly cheating with, and you bring him up, she flashes on you. I mean she loses it with you, and says you are f***ed up or just jealous and possessive.
You notice she’s lying alot more. About where she is/was and who she was with. And if she’s lying about that, then she’s somewhere else, with someone else. Another big sign!
She has new underwear from vs or other high end places, that she never wears for you. She might have lube or sex kits that are new, that you notice the lube slowly goes missing over time.
She has lots of guy friends!! But one in particular is someone she talks to alot now. About everything, including your failed relationship. He is usually from work or another place.
She is very defensive when you ask her about her whereabouts on certain days. IF she’s just angry she might be innocent, but if she’s straight=up defensive, you have a problem.
She’s lying about websites she goes to, i.e. dating sites or meetup.com. You find out she is really on them, or has profiles linked to FB whereby lots of guys are trying to chat with her.
You get home from work and she just is not there anymore. When she gets home her make-up is on point and she’s dressed to a T.
Seemingly normal errands take at least 2–4 hours to complete now. And she’s fly whenever she does them. And…she never answers your texts or calls when she’s doing these things.
Ultimately you really start to feel neglected and disregarded, as opposed to how things were in the beginning. You begin to feel this in the pit of your stomach.
You just know. After seeing all of these signs, you internally know she’s cheating. Whether she admits it or not on a gut level you know something is off.
She makes excuses as to why she no longer wants to have sex with you. IF you go down on her, she smells different or you actually see signs of semen.
in conclusion, Have you talked with her about it? If not, sit down and have an open, honest conversation. If she is committed to changing and ending the cheating behaviour, the relationship may survive. However, if this ongoing behaviour has been going on for years, chances are, it will not change. You’ll either have to end the marriage or stay with her with the understanding her infidelity will continue.
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